Deseret Fathers

 

Parish life is riddled with news, gossips and stories. This is the case all across the world. This Lent, it would be best to do a new reading of the old law: “Judge not and you will not be judged”


How easy it is to fall into a cycle of judgment! Many times, I have found it difficult to keep silent about some issue I want to cry about! Even if my mouth is kept shut, believe me, my heart would be whispering judgments about the issue!

We spend an enormous amount of energy making up our minds about other people. Why? Not a day really goes by without refraining from saying something that evokes in us the need to form an opinion about him or her,...opinion about the ongoing church programme,...opinion about the events in the Parish….

We hear a lot, see a lot and know a lot about most everything. The feeling that we have to sort out all of it in our minds and make judgments about it can be quite a job!! 

The Desert Fathers spoke that judging others is a heavy burden. No, I am not a Desert Father! Yet I believe there is an immense freedom if we let go of this attitude to Judge and relax with a smile!

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